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Sam and Clara from Clearwater Beach, Florida, have been
together for months now. Sam first noticed Clara was lying
out on the beach when she had forgotten her sun tan lotion.
Sam just so happened to have sun tan lotion handy. He offered
it to her and she accepted. However, they both went their
own ways that day because Sam simply walked away.
“At first, I suspected he just wanted to see if he
could pick me up,” admitted Clara, “but, when
he made no big deal about giving me his sun tan lotion and
left, I could not stop thinking about him… I offered
him a Snapple the next time I saw him. Now he is actually
applying the lotion.”
Sam scored big time by genuinely offering to help her.
There were no strings attached to his generosity and that
bought him credibility. A lesson wel learnedl.
Alfred and Tiffany found
flirting bliss at a community conference on racial understanding
and tolerance in Baltimore last year. They more than “tolerated”
each other; they ended up flirting during the entire daylong
event and have since shacked up together.
“I sent just about every sign to Alfred that I was
available,” Tiffany recalls. “I dropped my pamphlets
three times next to his chair before he finally wondered
why this clumsy girl was sitting next him.”
We applaud Tiffany for using “clumsiness” to
her flirting advantage. It can be a powerful weapon in anyone’s
flirting arsenal, especially if you are keen to flirt with
someone that likes to help others. The helpful types are
suckers for slips, spills and flying folders.
Mary and Cole, both Georgia Tech alums, found each other
at a sports bar in Atlanta, each with a large group of rowdy
football friends. Cole employed the “wingman”
technique whereas he had a friend lag behind him to spot
any babe that might be checking him out as he made his way
to the bar for a bucket of cold ones.
“Being in my early thirties,” he laughed, “I
felt a little silly doing something like this involving
my friend… However, I would feel worse if I was in
my later thirties and was still single.”
Mary was the lucky lady that couldn’t keep her eyes
off him and when they talked, they were peas of the same
Georgia Tech Yellow Jacket pod (or honeycomb we should say).
The rest is flirting history.
Jack and Jill went up a
hill to flirt. Jack came down without a frown and Jill without
her skirt (Okay, pathetic — we know).
Seriously, Jack and Jill of Andover, Maryland, meet at
a company picnic last year. They were both coming off long-term
relationships that left both a little cold. In addition,
they each worked for the same large consulting company and
Jill had no idea exactly what Jack did and he likewise.
“I didn’t’ want to ask him what area
of the company he worked in,” she said, “Because
I think it would put him on the spot. Rather, I asked what
he would like to be doing aside from working here.”
He said he would like be skiing. A week later, at a Pocono’s
Mountain Resort, Jill could not agree more.
The key for Jack and Jill was to focus on what they liked
to do and not what they were doing. Keep this in mind and
this flirting technique can work for you. Whether she came
back without her skirt, we will never know.
Annie and Dick met each
other at a suburban megachurch outside of Jackson, Miss.
Both are very serious about their beliefs that people should
strive to be pure, spiritual and wealthy.
Dick made masturbation signs during the old pastor’s
sermon that had Annie nearly rolling on the floor with her
church donation envelope. Both virgins, they were naturally
awkward to the idea of flirting.
“Yes, I vowed to save myself for the right person,”
joked Dick, “but I didn’t want to wait for an
eternity…. I got tired of the porn sites and wanted
the real thing.”
Their union would never have been possible were it not for
Dick’s flirting skills. He recognized a like-minded
spirit when he saw her. They were in their element and now
can release all that pent up spirituality together. You
Gretchen and Bill spend
each Tuesday mimicking Dancing with the Stars. They have
been together for almost a year now and describe their chance
encounter at a nightclub last spring, as an example of flirting
“I desperately wanted to get his attention,”
Gretchen recalls fondly. “But, I was with three of
my girlfriends. So, I had to go off on my own and make myself
available for Bill.”
She slowly drifted off to a corner by herself while her
friends danced with each other. Bill agrees her strategy
worked to perfection.
“Being a guy, I would not have been able to sort
her out from the rest of her friends. However, when she
started dancing alone, I know this was my chance.”
Availability is what worked for them. Gretchen smartly
sent the right signals that she was there for the taking.
Bill used his well-attuned flirting skills to swoop in for
Caleb and Muriel met at the movies in Ann Arbor, Michigan.
Both were attending the matinee showing of Wedding Crashers.
They are both huge Vince Vaughn fans.
“Even though the theater was nearly empty, we ended
up sitting two seats apart and we couldn’t help but
look at each other, laughing, when something funny happened….
Like the part where Owen Wilson…”
(Okay, saw it already. Don’t need a recap.)
Caleb and Muriel deserve credit for having the inner confidence
to go the movies alone. Nowadays, it is more and more common
to see singles at to the movies. Our advice is simple: Lights.
Kathy is senior at Georgetown
University in Washington, D.C. She met Bob online at Myspace.com,
where he would admire the scantily-clad pictures she posted
of herself. He used Myspace’s search preferences to
find a girl who was a little wild and liked to mix it up
with others every so often.
Compounding Kathy’s parent’s worst nightmare,
now Bob is in those provocative pictures on her myspace
Online services exist to help match people of like-minded
habits, hobbies or sexual preferences, like Kathy and Bob.
Usually such online flirting begins with an email or a request
Give it a try and maybe you could be in a Myspace profile
too. But don’t loose your shirt over it (like Kathy).
After all, this online thing is not for everyone—just
asks Kathy’s parents.
Jennifer and Marvin are
interns at a Washington, D.C. government agency. Recently,
they have begun seeing each other seriously after endless
lunchtime flirts at sidewalk cafes.
“What did it for me is that Jennifer was not afraid to
be herself when flirting,” Marvin said. “She
would tell me all about her problems at home because that
is what was really bothering her. Some guys might have been
put off by that. Not me.”
Jennifer appreciated Marvin for taking the time to listen.
“One day I thought I went on too much about my sister
and thought, oh boy… I did it again… He will
never want to talk to me again. I was wrong.”
Jennifer’s honesty attracted Marvin. Marvin’s
listening skills did it for Jennifer. Both traits make for
great flirting as both Marvin and Jessica can attest.
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